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Staying friends after break-up: Yeah or Nah?! 5/28/2004
After a nasty break-up, my ex and I have been able to patch
things up and remain friends. Feelings are still there,
but is it a good idea to stay in contact? She seems to waver
back and forth -- affectionate at times and then totally
hands off. Is it worth the headache remaining friends with
an ex?
0 Comments, 47 Views,
14 Votes
,5.70 Score
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A Little Closure Please 5/21/2004
This is just my oppinion...
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After having been in a extra marrital relationship for
about 4 years, My lover walked out the door never to return.
No fight nothing.
I had no clue that was the last day I would ever get to see his
beautiful blue eyes or see his smile. I know he loved me deeply,
we knew someday it would end. Im sure it was easier for him
to just leave that ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
36 Votes
,6.35 Score
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RE: Its soo hard, I still haven't done it 5/19/2004
No offense, but if your cheating on your girlfriend, even
if you are drunk, then there is a problem with that relationship,
and it needs to end. All your going to do in the long run is
hurt her more. The longer the cheating goes on with out her
knowing, the worse things will be when she finds out.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
21 Votes
,6.10 Score
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dont do it. 5/8/2004
dont break up with people. you dont have to, all you have
to do is stop calling them. while im not saying this will
make the dumpee fill beter but it damn sure takes the hassel
of looking them in the face off your shoulders.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
24 Votes
,0.97 Score
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don't do this! 5/8/2004
I had a loser of an ex-boyfriend who came over one Saturday,
had sex with me, let me buy him an EXPENSIVE dinner, give
him a gift... then the next day he sent me an EMAIL saying
he was having second thoughts about the relationship and
couldn't continue to see me.
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What's up with email being the easy way out ? Guys be
a man and have a real conversation with someone. There is ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score
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wot to do?? 5/7/2004
well ok my partner broke it off after 5 years. it hurts so
much. she says she want to be friends but then she doesnt
wanna talk. im in terrible pain and i need some1 to talk to.
she just like liein to herself i think. how can i get ova the
pain??
0 Comments, 3 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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how do i finish it 5/2/2004
How do you break up with someone when u think they might go
crazy. They have it in them to turn insane.
0 Comments, 17 Views,
21 Votes
,4.61 Score
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Love turns away 4/30/2004
Time changes everythying and everyone...
It takes a new love full of passion and desire
and withers it into less than nothing...
It turns decades of a relationship into dust.
I turns babies into and into adults.
It turns crowded hallways into empty creaking doors.
It levels happy homes and turns dead ends into malls.
It turns the love of your life into someone else and
then ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
24 Votes
,6.77 Score
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Why can't I walk away? 4/26/2004
Ladies, I need your help. I can't seem to walk away from
my ex's without there being a lot of drama. I mean it's
easy for me to walk away, but they always make such a big deal
out of everything?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
30 Votes
,0.89 Score
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there is no good way 4/23/2004
In the diallution of a relationship there is no way to end
it without someone or both parties being emotionally hurt.
The strenght it takes to openly discuss the situation should
not be conscrued as a sheild not to be hurt. Someone has to
start the ball.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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I WASNT HONEST AND I LOST 4/23/2004
I HAD A BEAUTIFUL GIRL WE STARTED OFF AS FRIENDS I TOLD HER
I WAS A DOCTOR WHEN I REALLY WASNT.I AM A TRUCK DRIVER AND
I AM A GOOD MAN, ,AND SHE WOULD HAVE LOVED ME EVEN IF I WERE
A DOOR TO DOOR SALESMAN, ,, WHAT STARTER OUT AS A SIMPLE
LIE, ,, ENDED UP COSTING ME EVERYTHING, ,, MY ADVICE
TO YOU IS BE UP FRONT ABOUT EVERYTHING , ,OR YOU JUST MIGHT
LOOSE EVERYTHING
0 Comments, 6 Views,
15 Votes
,5.12 Score
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Dumped her 4/22/2004
I once dumped this girl by giving her buttseks and then a
pirate eye all while I was telling her I wanted to just be
friends!
0 Comments, 13 Views,
25 Votes
,1.58 Score
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Ending a long Relationship, and how painful it can be 4/22/2004
I ended a relationship about three months ago, but it was
on the rocks for well over a year.
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I have had all kinds of problems with depression and motivation
to do anything. Now, I think I see the light at the end of the
tunnel. If you are going through something simular, I feal
your pain. I thought I would mention a few things that I have
learned, or am learning. Plus, ...
0 Comments, 378 Views,
78 Votes
,9.22 Score
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I think 4/21/2004
I think that when ending a relationship it is best to make
a clean break. Tell the other person that you don't
want to see them anymore. Instead of avoiding them I makes
it alot easier for all parties
0 Comments, 9 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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RE: Admitting you've cheated ..... 4/20/2004
You are absolutely right when you say, your admission of
infidelity may do more harm than good. By coming clean about
cheating, you may absolve yourself of guilt, by coming
forward with the truth and asking (begging) forgiveness.
However, your problem then becomes your partner's
problem (nightmare) and everything you felt plus more
gets dumped on your partner - the one you have already ...
0 Comments, 34 Views,
25 Votes
,6.89 Score
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Re: The ONE is gone 4/18/2004
Believe me, I know what you are saying and can seriously
feel and indentify with what you are probably going through
(right now). I've been working through something
extremely similar for nearly a year. I know that may not
sound like something you want to hear, but if you are like
me, you really have to look at the issues that caused him
to leave and why you never thought he would? It's ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Admitting you've cheated! 4/17/2004
If one cheats on a significant other but realizes it was
a mistake, should he/she admit to it. Will this do more harm
than good?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
20 Votes
,5.93 Score
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If there is a right way? 4/17/2004
Is there a right way to break up?
Should there be a mutual break up?
Should the couple just ignore each other?
What do you think?
Suggestions?
0 Comments, 54 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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I've had it 4/16/2004
I can't stand this woman. I try to get away from her and
we end up having incredible sex. In the bedroom is great.
Everywhere else just sucks. What can I do?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
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Stay miserable & married or divorce her 4/14/2004
My wife and I have been going through the motions for years.
We have two teenage and we constantly fight over decisions
involving them. I like them to be responsible, respectful,
and listen to what we ask them to do. My wife on the other hand
thinks they should have free rein to do whatever they choose.
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Also, my wife thinks she would be acting like a
if she every wore ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
10 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Breakin' up is hard to do... 4/12/2004
Once again, a relationship fails for me. This time, the
fault isn't me, her, so-called friends. It's
my . Who is 6.
He can't even remember me & his mother being together.
He behaves well when he sees her & her new guy. But he
lives with me, & he seems to be jealous of the time I've
been spending with my recent partner & her . We've
been together for 21/2 years, & been living together
for ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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When breaking it off with a female. 4/12/2004
*try to talk it through first.
*Be honest.
*Dont list our faults-it doesn't help.
*Tell us, calmly and rationally what went wrong.
*Try to be calm; yelling and name calling aren't a way
of breaking up, they are a way of causing MORE pain.
*Dont string us along uneccessarily for weeks, that makes
it worse.
*don't say sorry. It pisses us off more.
*break it clean
*dont promise ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score
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Recent devistating divorce 4/12/2004
Hello everyone, I am a new member here (standard) I would
just like experienced members to explain to me how it is
worth it to join the site. The reason I ask is I do not know
anyone who has ever joined any online dating site.
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Recently I moved here (ND) to start fresh, and things are
going outstanding, But I would like to begin dating, or
more, but I have little time to go ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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Getting divorced 4/7/2004
My husband came home last Wednesday and told me that he wanted
a divorce. We have 2 . He is being a real dick and
wants everything but the 's. I am packing up my 's
and moving out. Even though I married a real jerk I don't
think all men are the same. As soon as my divorce is final
I am going to go out and have some fun.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
15 Votes
,4.82 Score
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not good at it 4/7/2004
I hate telling a girl it's over. It's like I don't
want to burn that bridge. I might want to come back later
and get some pussy or something. Or maybe I'm just a
nice guys that doesn't want to hurt a woman's feelings.
Anyone else have this problem?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score
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Re: it took 10 days 4/6/2004
Hello,
Sorry to hear about your problem.
If both your names are on the lease then you are both responsible
for paying the rent. If she doesn't pay her half you
can get a court order to move her out. If it's only your
name on the lease then it's even easier to get rid of
her. Either way, don't evict the premises (not sure
about PA laws) but in some states evicting the premises
could ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Re: How Do You Let Go 4/2/2004
There are no words to say to anyone to help them let go. "Time
heals ......" is not what you want to hear, but unfortunately,
it's true. I've been there and done that soooo
many times! Sometimes it takes longer than usual, especially
if you were in love, but he/she wasn't. It is the most
painful thing to go through. "One sided love"
relationships is never easy, and I know that I'm not ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,5.64 Score
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it took 10 days 4/2/2004
i had been dating this girl for around 6 months, we had talked
about getting a place of our own, so we decided to start out
in an appartment, i was madly in love with her after 37 yrs
i thought i had found the perfect girl, enjoyed everything
i did. people thought we where perfect for each other, her
mom and dad told me i was the best thing that has happen to
her in her life. so we started ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
14 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Who's To Blame 3/31/2004
I was dating a woman who was supposedly in a bad marriage
and in the midst of a divorce. After a few months of intimate
dating we decided to get an apartment together. About two
weeks after we moved in together and two days before her
divorce was to be finalized, she told me she wanted it to
end, that she wanted to give her husband another chance.
The shock, the pain and the anguish was ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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soon to be ex-wife already engaged before our court date 3/30/2004
My wife kicked me out of my house 8 months ago and started
dating a "friend" that is 6 years younger than
her age of 32. Ok, at first I was pissed because she was stringing
me along and lying to me in order to get money out of me. But
once I told her I had to take care of me she filed for divorce.
I can definately handle getting divorced! She was a golddiging
who has learned this ...
0 Comments, 38 Views,
33 Votes
,7.74 Score
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